Ah I love the experiment story! It's so true. I do improv theater and the one constant that becomes so obvious is that your scene partner is always borderline "brilliant" but you were borderline "shit" lol. Then you ask your partner and they say the same thing "you were brilliant! I was shit!" That right there has made me question those judgements, and I now try to discast them unless they are constructive or affirming :)
Thank you for sharing @zippykimani! I'd love to hear your thoughts on my recent post: This Is How My Unsettling New Year's Situation Set Me Free