I find this to be a well thought out description of a very personal journey through life. Each of us in the spectrum has such an individual experience of it. No two experiences are alike, and yet, there are enough similarities to be able to grouped under a heading, a generic label, if you will.
My thoughts on my inner identity have evolved over the years, and perhaps will continue to evolve for the rest of my life. Such is the life of someone who is unable to identify strongly with either side of the fence.