there are a few teachers that helped me. they knew John as well so it made it easier for my 16-18 year old self to listen to them. One of them had gone thru a similar situation in college so we talked a lot. I had my "homicidal" moments where I could have found the drunk & done unspeakable things but this teacher helped me see the light. There have been other people I know that tried to help but they had no idea what I'd been thru so it was difficult to take them seriously. :-)