You may ask anything you like - I had Deb (she's my sister) to help me when I first started - she's been here a long time so she knows her stuff - Most people aren't that lucky and as you say stumble around blindly. Ok so at the top right again where your face is - click there and you will see feed - that's where the posts that people you follow are. Then there's blog - that's your stuff - then there's comments and replies - comments is what you say and replies are when someone answers :) hope that helps