Impulse can make you lose your mind

Everyone in life may encounter many unsatisfactory things.For example: failed to do business outside. came home suddenly met the death of parents. wife was fired by the boss. children play football broke the neighbor's glass, neighbors came to the door.

If you encounter the above situation, you will feel "Crazy".In fact, there are a lot of people and things in life, because of the irrationality of the parties in sudden situations, things have changed into evil, and they have become the victims of them.

Once heard of such a thing, a college student after graduation applied for a company to engage in product marketing, the company proposed to try for three months.Three months later, the college student did not receive the formal employment notice, so he angrily resigned.

A deputy manager of the company asked him to think about it again. He became more and more furious and said a lot of complaints.So the other party was angry and told him plainly that the company had not only decided to formally employ him, but also planned to promote him to deputy director of the marketing department.The company can't use him in any case.Because of his irrationality, the inexperienced college student lost a good job opportunity.

When a person is impulsive, his whole attention is focused on the thing that causes his impulse, and there is no time and space to consider other issues such as consequences.So some people say, "impulse is the devil.".Countless tragedies have repeatedly explained this sentence to the public.Including us, we also have some experience in our own experience.

Psychologists believe that anger is a normal reaction when people are hurt.The first thought is to attack the people who hurt themselves, but it's better to ask yourself before you act: can this achieve the goal?Is it helpful to solve the problem?

There are countless examples of people who hurt themselves because of impulse.For example, if a person we always respect does something that makes us sad, we are likely to satirize him immediately. if he is angry with a stranger, he would like to bomb him with an atomic bomb, and so on.

Among them, the office is the place where anger is most likely to arise. When we see that colleagues with average ability are promoted, but we are neglected, we will get angry. Every day we work for the company, and occasionally leave work early, the supervisor sarcastically says, "today is only half a day's work, and then we go to the boss to pat the table and throw the resignation in front of the boss,Then he thought he was very handsome and said, "I quit!" and so on.At that time, we may have breathed a sigh of relief, but in the end, we still suffered.

In real life, people are always impulsive.In an atmosphere and in a situation, impulsive emotions will break through the defense line of rationality rapidly, making people's emotions, thinking and behavior appear unconventional reactions.

Experts have confirmed that when people are impulsive, the brain is prone to short circuit.Under the control of short circuit brain, it is almost impossible to make timely and correct response to difficult problems.In our life, we often hear such information. After someone committed suicide by jumping off a building, his friends say that he is usually very calm and easy to communicate with. He has never heard of any grudges he has with anyone, and even doesn't know what he will have to worry about. or after someone uses a knife to cut down a person, he says that he has never thought of chopping people before, and that he and the people who have been cut down just because of trivial matters.

So why do we often hear such information?In short, it is because when people are impulsive, they tend to do things that they would not even think about, thus causing harm to themselves or others.

In life, rational ground to the society, can make our life improve the quality.Dealing with affairs rationally is not only the embodiment of high quality of human being, but also the reflection of emotional wisdom.

Angry people are the most stupid people in the world. As long as people are angry, what they say is stupid and what they do is stupid.As long as a person is angry, he will not say what is good to him, but he will say something bad to him. If he is angry, he will not do his good things, but he will do his bad things.