The Last Woman Standing in the Family is gone at 104 years old.

in Steem Cameroon4 days ago

Greetings @everyone and it is a dark day for my family as we lost the last woman of my great grand father who was the fon of my village Buchi, in Santa Sub Division of the North West region of Cameroon.

My great grand father had several wives which according to them as we were told, tradition demands that as a chief, you were supposed to get married to as many wives as possible so that they will reproduce and increase the family in numbers. According to them polygamy was a good way to proof the strength of a man.

I do not know all the wives of my late great grand father because before we were born, some were dead already and I only met 8 of them alive.

Over the years, all of the remaining 8 wives of my great grand father died and the last woman standing was this Mama Deborah Menyi at the age of 104 years.

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Image from my Cousin’s Facebook.

She was a mother for not only her born children but mother of all children as she was fondly called. Everyone in the family loved her because of her indiscriminate actions towards everyone in the family. She never discriminates and always share cheerfully to everyone around her.

I received the news this day and though we will missed her but I think we should rather celebrate the grace upon her life. She has been strong and healthy throughout until recently when she started complaining of body pains. She was immediately rush to the hospital for medical attention.

Unfortunately, she could not withstand the pain and gave up the ghost at 104 years old. We salute her bravery and her strength to fight till her last breathe. She has proven to us beyond doubts that life is not too complicated to live and clock 100 years.

We have lost one of the archives of the family because she was in place to recount some of the stories of the past to us. We used her as our library to gain knowledge of the past especially our royal family history.

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I only met 8 of them alive.

This actually made me smile.. I’m wondering, how many all his wives would have been in total including concubines. 😊

Sorry for the loss.. I believe she’s in a better place now. In the part of Nigeria were I come from, it will be a very big celebration because she lived a very long life before her demise.

 2 days ago 

I myself do not know the exact number of wives he had. To think that in those days, your strength as a man was measured to the number of wives and kids you have was hilarious.

Of course we are celebrating her life and not mourning.

 4 days ago 

Oh my!!! I'm deeply sorry for your loss Chant. Indeed she was really a strong and brave to live up to a century and beyond.
She also shared several amazing characters such as my mum, especially on the indiscriminate part 😁

 2 days ago 

Her legacy will live with us forever and we cherished all the amazing moments spent with her before her demise. Your mom must be an amazing woman to your family.

 2 days ago 

Indeed!!! Her legacy will live on forever 🙏
Yes of course, my mom is so amazing 😊

My condolences Ma'am. I believe she's in a better place so you all should celebrate the grace of God upon her life on earth.

 2 days ago 

We will definitely do just that and continue to pray for her soul to find eternal rest.

 2 days ago 

Thank you for the support.

My condolences, RIP..

 2 days ago 

Thank you 🙏.

@chant, accept my heartfelt condolences ma'am, may her gentle soul rest in perfect peace Amen. Celebrate the grace of God upon her life in those years she lives, I believe her legacy will live on forever.

 19 hours ago 

Her legacy will live forever indeed. Thank you for reaching out.