The inevitable vanity
Have you ever had to deal with vain people?
Yes, I have never had a deal with vain people. At my former compound as a student I was living in the same place where one senator's daughter in my state is also staying she who comes from a wealthy family hardly talks, but her related sister and two of her friends like showing an excessive pride in their appearance and achievements. They usually act as if they own the campus which several people get tired of them.
Is it necessary that, on certain occasions, we should behave vainly?
Yes, I think it is necessary on certain occasions we should behave vainly to flow along with our peers who always show themselves up. The reason why we should sometimes show certain occasions and behave vainly is to avoid intimation, harassment, or misunderstanding with the people around us when been found in a place that requires us to behave vainly.
Do you think that behind vanity there is a problem of insecurity?
Yes I think behind vanity there is a problem of insecurity. This usually happens when someone feels uncertain about their worth or how they are perceived, they might focus excessively on their achievements or appearance to gain validation. It is usually seen as a way to mask deeper self-doubt is what I can say here.
However, it is not only vanity that comes from insecurity as some people simply take pride in their accomplishments or appearance without deeper problems I can also say that it depends on the individual and their motivations.
It is said that some people, through their excessive expressions of humility, hide a high degree of vanity. Do you agree with this assertion?
Yes, I honestly agree that humility can sometimes be a subtle form of vanity. Why I say this because someone can constantly emphasize how humble they are or even downplay their achievements in a performative way, they may be seeking validation or admiration. Also, the thing is that true humility doesn't need an excessive display, instead it is more about an inner attitude rather than just an outward performance.
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@cruzamilcar63
Hi @jasminemary, vain people are always seeking approval from others.
Unfortunately, vanity leads people to lose the opportunity to interact with others fluidly, since in reality few people want to be next to someone who is vain.
Blessings and successes.
¡Saludos amiga!🤗
No creo que una actitud vanidosa evite que nos intimidemos, ya que la intimidación tiene otros motivos. Soy partidaria de creer que a la vanidad no hay que abrirle la puerta, porque esa actitud es muy peligrosa.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica... Un fuerte abrazo💚