The Magic Of Love

Love is one word that a lot of people have misunderstood for sometimes attraction. Love happens to be a very deep, serious, and complex blend of behaviors, emotions, and beliefs connected with strong affectional feelings, feelings of respect, protectiveness, and warmth for another person.

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Love can equally be a moral excellence or principle representing human compassion, affection, and kindness, which characterizes it as the altruistic, loyal, and benevolent interest for the good of another.

Love is principal to the existence of humans, completely including emotional, physical, and spiritual facets. It can be distinctly perceived in different forms, such as platonic love, romantic love, self-love, and familial love, each having its sui generis significance and characteristics.

Just as I mentioned earlier, love and attraction are complex, different, and have many aspects, nuanced or diverse. Nevertheless, the following are characteristics and qualities that attract me to a person and possibly result in romantic love.

• Personality Traits

I am very much attracted to a person who shows a sense of humor, intelligence & curiosity, confidence, kindness, and empathy.

• Character and Integrity

While some people live a fake life, others are authentic. I am usually attracted to a person I perceive as authentic, a person who demonstrates a reasonable level of moral principles and probity. A person who brings about a sense of security by being reliable and responsible.

• Physical Attraction

Where I come from, we believe that the eyes eat before the mouth, and of course, no mouth spits out sugar when given to it. Physically appealing things are not just pleasing to the eyes but are soothing to the heart. Me, I like good things, and hence, I am attracted to a person with nice physical features like style, face, and physique, an open and confident person with approachable body language.

• Emotional Connection

This is another characteristic that gets me attracted to a person. I find a person who is vulnerable and open, displaying sincere interest and an active listener, sharing mutual interest, passion, and values attractive.

• Chemistry and Spark

In every sincerity, I am attracted to a person who has a natural, irrefutable body chemistry, a person who displays a sense of excitement when interacting with me.

The truth is that while some of these characteristics can be felt or spotted at first sight, others are observed over time. Consequently, love and attraction are very much subjective and individualized

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To Keep the flame of love alive in a relationship calls for effort, commitment, as well as a willingness to nourish the connection. Out of the numerous factors I would like to pick Forgiveness and Understanding.

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Forgiveness and understanding, as we know, are necessary, indispensable elements or constituents of any healthy relationship that allows for conflict navigation, healing from hurt, and making our connection with others deeper.

Forgiveness is a way of emotionally disengaging unhealthy emotions like resentment, anger, and hurt connected with yestertide conflict or experience. It is beyond condoning or forgetting, instead letting go of the emotional charge connected to it.

Forgiveness is beneficial for healing, personal growth, emotional liberation, and improved relationships.

Understanding, on the other hand, is a way of questing for comprehension of another person's point of view, experiences, and feelings. It is about feeling empathy for their state of emotions and acknowledgment of their humanity.

Understanding is beneficial for conflict resolution, personal insight, deeper connection, empathy, and compassion.

Embracing forgiveness and understanding can result in the creation of a more compassionate, loving, and harmonious environment within ourselves and in our relationships.

The most romantic love song I have been dedicated to is "All of You" by John Legend