Doctor corazón
Hello friends, how are you all doing today, hope that you people will be fine and doing great in life.
@cotina organizó un concurso sobre parejas, febrero es el mes seleccionado para esto, entonces este mes es importante porque es el mes en el que las parejas discuten su amor de pareja con emociones y discuten sus recuerdos del pasado y planifican su vida futura.
"Doctor Heart"
1. "Me es infiel, descubrí unos mensajes en su celular, tiene actitudes raras, no lo conozco"
So this statement is referring to a man, it is stated by a woman. The statement does not suggests any type of cheating from the man because strange attitudes does not represents cheating, if a person is cheating he shows a positive attitude towards his partner. This statement shows that the husband or partner of this female is upset from her because she says that "She found messages which made the partner as unfaithful, and opposite attitudes suggest sadness". Here the therapy includes the reasons why this person is upset from his partner, resolving these issues and giving some time to each other so that they can recover from this bad position in which they are struggling.
2. "Él quiere la casa impecable, pero no mueve un solo dedo. Yo cocino, limpio la casa, lavo ropa, hago compras y también trabajo y contribuyo económicamente".
A totally different situation, in a partnership or family it is both couple's obligation to perform their side of work or half efforts are done by men and half by women but here the situation is one sided. The man is acting rude, therapy for this can be that we inform the male to behave like a male; it is his responsibility to look after his family, work like a leader by helping his partner. Work the most, tackle bad situations and handle majority of the problems in the relationship. If he is not acting like this so the female partner have full power to take actions to leave him, if she is in a love with this guy and couldn't leave him, so I will say that "It is good to sacrifice for your love but it is worst to kill yourself for your love".
3. "Él no recuerda mi cumpleaños excepto el día de San Valentín, no tiene detalles conmigo, es como si no le importara"
Remembering birthday is not a big issue, it can be resolved easily. The man remembers valentine day, valentine is a global day so it is difficult to forget. There are a lot of issues in which we are stuck, remembering things is very difficult for men when you are struggling. If the men love his partner which is important, remembering and celebrating just one day is not enough but having good moments more than just one day is important. As according to me, I don't remember when have I celebrated my last birthday; it can be more than 9 years that I celebrated my birthday. Thus, stay happy and don't celebrate a day but celebrate everyday.
4. "Se enoja porque salgo con mis amigos y dice que les doy más tiempo, a veces son difíciles de entender".
Dividing time for everyone is important in life when you are in a maturity level, the men his wife and demands more time from her so that he can discuss his problems, his emotions which he cannot discuss with anyone. Wife is a person with whom you discuss your problems, your sadness and your downs in life. A men is a tougher but he needs someone to discuss his emotions; a wife, a partner. For this women it will be better to make timetable, when his husband is at work so she can visit her friends and when her husband returns back so she should be available for him because he needs her in his life. A person is complete when he gets married.
Entonces, estas fueron las respuestas a los problemas. Debemos cuidarnos unos a otros, especialmente a nuestra pareja. No contar secretos de pareja a nadie, ser pacientes y trabajar con paciencia, perdonarse unos a otros y discutir problemas y dividir emociones entre ellos..
Inviting friends @gabylazarde @paholags @m-fdo