I quite miss my younglings and now they are all good teenage human beings

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Let's admit it all, we do have favorite sons, daughters, nieces, and nephews and also Aunts and Uncles to complete the group mix. I said that because I myself have a favorite niece because for one thing she is the first addition to my family and secondly she was very cute and resembles the face of her father but in the form of her mother although now she was lacking in height which we do not know where she inherited from for the reason that she is quite short in stature so she is shorter than the average height of women here in my country.

Anyway, when that niece of mine was born, she stayed here in the house as my parents were the ones that took care of her while her parents work. It is because they live beside our house and my parents were the convenient ones to act as her nannies. So of course we get to spend a lot of time with that niece of mine which I am happy about because she is just smart and does the darnedest things that babies and little toddlers does.

When she was just a baby I am still able to carry her and sometimes throw her in the air while still holding her because of course I might drop her and she liked it. I basically spent lots of quality time playing with that baby-toddler niece of mine compared to my other nieces and nephews. So when her brother was born I am already weak enough not to be able to carry him plus the fact that my first Nephew is heavier compared to my niece when she was just a baby.

Then after my brother sold his house to my sister, they went to live in another town and by that time my niece and nephew were already more than six years old, so I was just seeing them from time to time like when my brother visits my parents and in special occasions. My other nieces also went to live in their grandmother's house in my sister's husband side of the family because they have cousins that they can play with over there as my sister's sister in law lives there too with her mother. That is why they grew up away from me and we weren't that close now.

It's the same with my other brother's sons, we all grew up not spending quality time with me and that quite frustrated me for the reason that it was not planned because the plan was to make me included at least within their special moments in life but because I got pinned down inside the four walls of my room in the confines of my house due to my handicap, there is a level of estrangement between me and my younglings now which I regret that happened.

Nothing that I feel now but to miss those moments where I was able to enjoy the company of my favorite niece because it was one of the moments that even though I have no child of my own, because of course I am not qualified to have a family of my own, at least I am able to experience having a niece that gave me some happy times because what I expect her to be, a smart, happy, so very cute, and beautiful happened and that is one precious thing that I cherished in my life.

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Such a natural photography you have captured, I really loved your talent in capturing one moment from different angles.

Thank you, I hope that I can deliver more soon but I am just limited right now for posting my photography because I can't go many places around even here in my town. I really want to do escapades with friends to take more photos with nice stories of memories created with it but it is just not possible.

It is sad that they all live that far away and they cannot find the time to visit you. How to solve that perhaps with video chats or telling them you like to meet them ore often? We all grew older and some quality time is important to have good memories for all those moments they are not around. The photo you shared is super cute and I understand why you love her that much.

Why she is shorter? Perpaps because of some grandparents? We have that too in the family. My great grandmother was very short while her husband was tall. My grandmother was tall but she had a very short daught while the other had the average size. It is not uncommon that the DNA of great (great) parents suddenly show. As long as she's happy and healthy I wouldn't worry about those centimeters. People are different and if it comes to it it's not important. If she suffers from it she can always wear high heels although I find it uncomfortable.

A warm embrace for you. I hope that by the time you read this you no longer feel nauseous.

I am just happy that mu Nephews and nieces grew up happy with great memories with their parents and friends because their parents had been great in providing them what they need in many ways more than one so I am just contented with that considering that I can't bring back time with that plan of spending some time with them to get closer with them.

With regards to my niece's height, it is not a problem that she is quite shorter, it is just unusual that she is relatively shorter than the average because her mother and father are average in height, so I guess that she got it from some of our ancestors but it is not a problem for all of us, it is just noticeable when we do family/group photos.

I feel much better today because I completed my session, it does feel great when toxins are being cleansed-put from the body and never ceases to amaze me to feel it during the dialysis treatment sessions particularly what it does to my brain, it clears that "fog".

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