How does Emotional Dependency generate unnecessary conflicts?

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We should not create the right environment for couple relationships to be emotionally dependent on each other, because when we do not have the emotional support we can end up in frustration or even resentment.

When we depend emotionally on another person it can become an evil that goes far beyond the dependence of the couple, it can even extend to friends and family, which implies a dependence in which the person does not act and does not make decisions without the approval of another person. When emotional dependence exists, imbalances arise in the couple, which far from favoring the union of the couple, deteriorates it.

Why does emotional dependence in a couple deteriorate it instead of improving it?

When an emotional dependence arises in the couple, it is because one of the two parts begins to feel insecure, these insecurities are bad, since they generate jealousy, fights, and to the other person the insecurities of the other one bore him/her, because the idea ends up being that the couple supports each other and not that one depends on the other one.

The idea is that when the couple begins to feel that they are developing an emotional dependence, they can break with the elements that feed it, and instead of building an emotional dependence, they learn to live together in a feedback, where each one contributes their grain of sand for the learning of the other.