Put Yourself In My Shoes

Hello everyone, good evening to you all and welcome back to my blog.

Pexel

1. How do you feel when you are judged or singled out by another person?

As Human beings, we usually feel down casted and sad when we're judged wrongly, especially by the very people who we believe will always stand by us anytime anyday. Anytime I'm judged by someone, I always feels unhappy.

2. What bothers you most about being judged or criticized?

I'm a type of person that things gets to easily, anytime people misjudge me, it usually dampens my spirit and I usually dealt on that for a while.

3. How do you handle criticism and how do you usually respond to it?

Pexel

Criticism is a Part and parcel of life, infact sometimes, Critciism helps us to improve in whatever we're doing like Business, Work, Academy etc.

Whenever I'm criticized, I do the following.

I analyze and ponder on what the person criticized to find out if they're actually true.

Secondly, I map out measures to work on those Lope holes.

After working on myself for a while, sometimes, I even go back to the person to help me analyze and give me feedback on my improvement so far.

4. Have you had a difficult time in life? Applaud your courage and dedicate a few words to yourself.

Ofcourse i experience difficulties in life because Life is not a bed of roses. Dearest Nenye, it hasn't been easy, Life is a Journey filled with roses and thorns and you have had your fair share of it. You have been misjudged many times and criticized many times but you still held your Shoulders high. No matter the Storm or difficulties on your way, keep moving!

5. If you could give your shoes to a Stemiams for a day, which one would it be and why? Do you think that person represents you in your courage and strength?

Pexel

Honestly I wouldn't want any Steemians to be in my shoes because Shoes definitely has Sizes and mine might be Comfortable to me and uncomfortable to another person. Secondly, I don't know any Steemians so well to know their Strengths and Weaknesses.

6. Judging and criticizing is not helpful at all, why do you think people do it?

Judging is very bad, it usually has lots of negative impact on individual especially those who're judged wrongly. We should always hear people's point of view before judging them.

Criticism even though it can be bad when too extreme I feel it helps people to leave their comfort zone and work hard. Imaging telling a Student that his Results isn't good enough, that Students will work hard to show himself approved.

Thanks for reading my post, I invite @aspiya, @wuddi, and @alysaa to participate in this contest.