Greetings friend. A pleasure to read you as always.
As you say, we don't always get up from the right side of the bed, maybe we try to see everything from the best possible perspective, but there will always come that moment when well... the problem will be very difficult.... That happens to all of us, my friend, no matter how much we try to keep control.
For us, believers in God, we understand that everything happens for a higher reason, and well friend everything we go through and live will always leave us a lesson.
Blessings.
What I understand from the things that happen is that, out of everything, what happens is always for the best. Everything happens for the greater good.