life is planned by.... By whom? A god, a filthy rich person, a parent, society or the grace of some doctor? All not holy, not almighty, too busy to pay attention

In my opinion the God Almighty has eye on every single second. HE knows what what we intend to do . Inshort HE has made two paths the goodness and evilness. Likewise every human is rewarded according to that. It's in human authority what we select good or bad!
The all selfishness is brutle.
There is difference between standing for yourself and keeping someone downfall to kept yourself standing.

Have you thought what we we suffer from today perhaps it is the same what we did to others. The ALMIGHTY has ordered what you sow you will get either in this duniya or life after death everlasting.

We should kept in our mind the word
CONSEQUENCES
If we work hard recognize our abilities that we are born with we will be get the best consequences.

It's better to be friends with an idiot instead of someone with brains.

In my experience Perhaps many idiots have kindhearts. Why they are called idiots because they don't know how to be behave cunning . Perhaps not all are same!!!
In that manner when I read you I felt like I am idiot because I am always being used by others 🙃.