The hardest thing is to figure out who you are and what you want. I doubt I ever did (typical things you have to write essays about at school, from primary school on. No way I would do that, not for all gold in the world. I learned that people, teachers included, will never take me serious and will whatever I want, talk or beat out of my head).
The only thing I learned through the years is that I change, my interests can, my jobs do and my joy does the same. What remains the same are strong dislikes and if I know them, can list what I why I automatically know the opposite.
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