In a way you have to stay ground ( a nasty period I can tell you they will keep trying out how far they get) but as soon as you change, everything changes and you attract people who like you for who you are and are happy to read you.
That's why I never like to go for school reunions or gathering. Some people are quite pathetic. I think they ran out of things to say, so they made me a target. They think they are funny because people were laughing to their jokes at the expenses of me.
I chose to ignore those trolls but somehow it emboldened them thinking they can treat me like a doormat. Horrible people
In a way you have to stay ground ( a nasty period I can tell you they will keep trying out how far they get) but as soon as you change, everything changes and you attract people who like you for who you are and are happy to read you.
That's why I never like to go for school reunions or gathering. Some people are quite pathetic. I think they ran out of things to say, so they made me a target. They think they are funny because people were laughing to their jokes at the expenses of me.