Murder of a puppet
Do you know what is wrong and right?
Everyone knows about right, but today I am going to talk about wrong.
"Never reply to the wrong number"
It destroys your life. The trust and confidence that a woman and a man have in each other is broken because of this wrong number.
Today I am going to tell you one such incident.
A girl's honor is her most precious treasure, which she protects more than her own life.
This is the story of Iqra and Ali, who had a marriage of choice.
Ali's family was not at all happy with his marriage. But because of his son's love and unreasonable stubbornness, they had made Iqra their daughter-in-law, but they did not give her the respect she deserved. They used to treat Iqra like a servant in the house. If she had complained to Ali, he would have ignored her, saying that the family was angry because of the marriage of choice. After some time, they would be fine.
I don't know what happens to men after marriage. Before marriage, they have endless words to praise a woman. But after marriage, they don't even like talking to her.
Such men consider a woman like a puppet, who dances on the instructions of them and their family.
Anyway, let's get back to the topic.
Iqra started receiving calls from a wrong number. Fearing that her in-laws might find out, she secretly threaten the caller to stop disturbing her.
Sometimes, she would even plead with him, telling him that if her husband found out, he would divorce Iqra (A marriage of choice ends in doubt.).
Because she had already seen the behavior of her in-laws and her husband. But the caller did not stop making calls.
One day, Iqra's mother-in-law came to know that someone was harassing her. And Iqra's mother-in-law took advantage of this opportunity and provoked Ali that your wife is a bad woman and she is having an affair with other boys.
Ali, in obedience to his mother, started beating Iqra. And he beat her so much that he took her life. (So-called honor killing).
Seeing his wife's body, Ali realized that he had made a mistake. And when he checked Iqra's mobile, he found out from the messages of the wrong caller that Iqra was innocent.
What lesson did we learn from this incident?
Did you learn anything?
Decisions made in haste always ruin a person's life.
Don't make haste until you see the truth with your own eyes.
Don't waste your smiling life by listening to someone's words.
The writing is getting a little long, but I want to say something else.
Always respect the sister, daughter of others. The girl who leaves her home for you and takes care of you and your family, give her the respect she deserves, do not reject her.
Because she is the woman who raises your generation.
Why does she answer these calls? Today we can see the number, and she can block it. I remember I had an idiot calling me for a long period, and I had to change my number several times, which was very expensive. Back then, a number wasn't shown; mobile phones didn't exist). At times, I just picked up and placed the phone in front of the radio, and I even bought an answering machine. Today? I never answer an unknown number or an anonymous number (always scammers and people who want to sell something) because those who know me know I would never make a phone call and how to reach me.
I can't stand men who care more about what mom says than their own wife, and these are the men, next to those who love their car/bike you should NEVER get married to.
I find thatmother-in-laww disgusting! No way I would serve such a nasty person. I wonder why adult people behave like that. She never been a daughter-in-law?
If someone calls and messages you from different numbers, we have to talk to them to stop it.
It's all about trust and confidence. If your loved ones are sincere with you, no power in the world can separate them.
But unfortunately, people like Ali are very common in our society.
This incident is very old and was preserved in my memory and at that time no one was inclined towards the number block, that is why countless girls like Iqra used to get caught in the clutches of these rascals and goons. Alas, alas.
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If you start dating people of the same calibre to avoid explaining obvious things, our life will become paradise.
What is the purpose of the marriage if you can't share everything with them without any fear. Concealing things will turn any marriage gross one day.
Loyalty and trust must be the foundation of any relationship.
We can only expect loyalty and trust from someone. No one can guarantee that the next person will live up to it or not.
It's gambling.
It's hard to rate oneself. Shouldn't it be about what you write/show not if you are an observer of life? Does that fact make what you write better? I try to see the reason, logic but don't see it.
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A person can never classify themselves. A person always considers themselves better.
We classify what we write.
Why do you think I have classified myself?
But it is better to describe what we have written in a little detail and to describe our experience and analysis so that we can explain our point well to others.
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@mikitaly
Thanks a lot @mikitaly.
Upvoted! Thank you for supporting witness @jswit.
I would like to give this article a nine out of 10.
I also examine everything in real life, be it relationships or things.
Real bravery is when we put things and relationships in their rightful place (for example, shoes are never worn on the head, they look good on the feet).
I hope and pray that people stop treating women as puppets.
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The only way this will happen is if women stop treating women worse then animals and raise their sons better. Did you saw the short film entry? It's the same topic, women be servants but also women refusing to change something except one. Watch it.
There is no doubt that mothers need to pay close attention to their children. In today's era, women themselves have become the enemy of women.
If a mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law like a daughter, no son will consider his wife a puppet.
No, I will watch the short film today. Yesterday I did research on A better life.
The busyness has increased a little during the days of Ramadan, so now the activity on Steemit has also decreased. In Sha Allah, soon I will be active again like before.
Ramadan Mubarak to you all.
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A universal fact.
There is no power on this planet earth that can make any mother in-law treat you as her daughter and the same goes for the daughter in-laws, you can't make her your mother.
The moment we accept this, our sufferings will diminish to some extent.
Respect them dearly and expect less.
I hop in here.. Sadly enough, I agree. Women are the worst enemies of women, not men.
What to think about the next situation? Stupid jokes made about the mother-in-law?
Unlike the women, the son-in-laws are the only ones always making these jokes. I never heard any girl/woman ever make a joke about the mom-in-law and filling the internet, books and magazines with it. Doesn't this sound like disrespect? Is a joke still a joke if it's repeated?
Does this son tell the same jokes about his mothers since she is a mother-in-law too.
Long story short:
Women talk bad about women and humiliate them
Men talk bad about women and humiliate them
Can this be changed?
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Yes, maybe this can be changed, but for this we need to promote education. The role of education in our life is very important. Education teaches us to distinguish between right and wrong.
Mother is our first teacher in our life. Therefore, women's education should not be ignored. Have you ever thought that when mother, who is also our first teacher, is illiterate, will we ever forget the lessons she has given us?
Mother and teacher both teach us to respect women, mothers, sisters, and daughters.
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It took time to see what the photo is about. Now I see a broken neck. Hard to live if that happens. I find it hard to read you because of all the white lines it's hard to tell when you tell a story, give and example or add some thought or conclusion.
If you type with a time, the text will be like one text block and you can add 2 or 3 whitelines once finished or not. I don't like it too much since these texts are short. Your photos divide text.
The picture was about a woman who was subjected to the scolding of her ignorant mother-in-law and husband because of a wrong number.
In terms of my writing, I found this puppet to be the best, which is enough to describe the helplessness of a woman well.
(By the way, it was a fun time with my son when I made this puppet with the help of playdough).
I can't type with time. I write my writing on a register. I have trouble writing on my mobile, so I do whatever I find easy.
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Excelente reflexión! Siempre he sido creyente de que cuando decidimos hacer una vida con alguien, las etiquetas parecen limitar un sentimiento. Esto en ocasiones hace que cualquier acto negativo entre a la relación. Y por otro lado pero sin perder el foco del tema, debemos ser rápidos al escuchar y lentos para responder, de allí para tener un panorama más amplio para actuar de forma correcta y para nada hiriente. Muchas gracias por tu escrito! Bendiciones!