Of course people see the flaws in their partners, but since they are in love they prefer not to see them, but to hide them. Then it's late.
I have had help in my life because I have paid some people to help me; I didn't get much from the rest or from my family. I am one of the people who gives without expecting anything in return, so I don't get frustrated when I don't receive anything from others, much less if I don't receive anything from the people I have helped. I would do it again.
I am an older adult who learned to love solitude. I like being with someone who asks me to come visit for a while, of course, but after the visit is over, I breathe again in my solitude, which is so wonderful.
I have already changed what I had to change; What I have left to live is a gift from God. I'm not complaining about my life, but I am complaining about the current heat, hehehe. For some time now I see my days as a gift from God, who wants me to learn something more.