"SLC-S24/W6 - Powerful Debate | Yes or no/ pros and cons".

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Assalamu Alaikum everyone. I came up with my entry in the final week of the Strong Pervert Challenge organized by the Ladies Universe community. I am very happy to be participating in this final week. The organizers have asked to present their strongest points on three issues. I have selected between Trust & Loyalty. On Trust & Loyalty today I would like to present a strong counterargument with my argument.

Trust & Loyalty

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Trust and loyalty to one another are very important in a healthy relationship. Although loyalty and trust have different meanings, they are similar in every relationship. Because trust is the first way to build loyalty between two people who love. Loyalty is created between two people by trusting each other. I think loyalty is easy to achieve only after trust is established between two people who are married or in love.

Can a relationship survive past betrayals and abuse? No

I think trust is the foundation of a relationship. And where there is a lack of trust, it is very difficult to maintain a relationship. I believe it is impossible to build a long-term relationship when betrayal and abuse pervade the relationship. Because I want to compare faith like a glass. which is so delicate that once it is broken it becomes a very time-consuming matter to get it back.

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Trust is responsibility and dependence on each other that must be fulfilled with obedience. But if there is an incident of betrayal of each other, it can push the relationship towards an uncertain future. So if an attempt is made to maintain the relationship even after a betrayal of trust, I do not think it will be perfect.

A: Create a debate or a real story to support your point.

I have a real experience of how people play with trust and loyalty in the lives of individuals. This story of mine will help you understand how extreme a betrayal of trust can be in a relationship, and a husband and wife can never continue a long-term relationship.

I had a close relative whose daughter he very carefully married off to a gentle and gentle boy. The boy was very social and polite to say the least. The wedding took place in a family atmosphere. Before the marriage, the boy and the girl had never known each other. The girl had immense faith in her father that the one whom her father had fixed as her life partner was definitely a worthy match for her. However, he did not express any kind of conflict in the marriage. A few days before the wedding date, the boy and the girl met two or three times and started talking on the phone to build a mutual bond with each other. And at some point, the boy tried to gain the girl's trust and slowly their bond started to strengthen. In this way, their wedding day came and their marriage was completed in a very special way according to Muslim customs.

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After getting married, their life started with trust and love. As the wife's faith in her husband developed, her loyalty to her husband increased day by day. However, the wife did not know that a danger was brewing for her. After a week of marriage, one day late at night, the wife woke up to the sound of a text message on her husband's phone. Out of curiosity, she picks up her husband's phone and finds a message there. Where it was written - "You have forgotten me after getting a beautiful wife." The message was not liked by the wife. So she questioned her husband about the message the next morning. And her husband got annoyed and tried to avoid it. But later such messages and phone calls were constantly breaking his wife's faith.

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At one point, the behavior and behavior of this husband became suspicious, which led to a lack of trust in the wife and extreme unrest in the family. Then, after family mediation, it was discovered that her husband had committed extreme unfaithfulness to his wife. He was already married and had a child. But keeping this matter a secret, he got married for the second time. In the end, this relationship ended in divorce. I think this incident was an extreme indication of betrayal. This kind of betrayal can never sustain any relationship. Where the foundation of a husband and wife's relationship is established by trust and a bond of soul, betrayal and abuse can never sustain a healthy relationship.

B: Explain the advantages and disadvantages of trust and loyalty in a relationship.

From the above discussion, it is evident that the importance of trust and loyalty in a relationship is immense. For a couple, the bond of trust creates a nest of happiness within the family. Which helps a lot in building a bond of brotherhood with each other. I am presenting the advantages and disadvantages of trust and loyalty below:

Advantages of Trust and Loyalty:

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• Trust and loyalty are the elements that help in establishing mutual emotional connection.

• Trust is essential to a healthy relationship. Because it helps to keep a partner feeling safe and secure.

• Support of the partner through trust and loyalty and inspires to create a beautiful life together.

• Extreme loyalty to each other makes the love and trust between both stronger.

• Trust and loyalty act as a symbol of commitment and devotion to each other during difficult times in life, which makes a relationship last longer.

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Disadvantages of Trust and Loyalty:

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• If trust and loyalty are not established in a relationship, the overall stability of the relationship decreases.

• If there is no trust, there is no commitment to each other.

• Without trust, the love of a relationship weakens and causes doubts and insecurities.

• Without loyalty, there is no love. Because obedience always comes before love.

• If there is no manifestation of trust and loyalty in the partner, then life is doomed.

So at the end of the strong debate, my opinion is that trust and loyalty are definitely needed to sustain a relationship for long. But if two of its components are deficient in replacing the relationship then it becomes difficult to sustain the relationship. Just as love is damaged without trust, loyalty has no place in it. Therefore, I consider a balanced relationship between trust and loyalty as the perfect ideal.

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