Does it matter if Aceh is behind? You can compare but are the situations/circumstances exactly the same? If there are more mouth the feed it might be wise to move or start a business yourself or stop having children like what happens in many countries. Welfare doesn't come if you worry day and night and cannot pay the bills not to mention the costs for raising a child.
If governments don't care it basically means you are thrown on yourself and the only solution is to be independent and take care of your own food and clothes so there's no need to buy food.

Interesting to see that you have cows we hardly have since we had cow madness years ago.