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RE: Contest | 25-Word Comment - Monkey Business | Complaints
I agree that it's good to vent and to say what's eating you. It's unhealthy to hold in what makes one sad or unhappy and by expressing it one also discovers what is wrong and what hopefully can be solved.
Those "good old days" where mothers used fathers to beat the crap out of you which is what my father did.
As a child, I found the most disgusting thing to pretend that I am happy and everything is fine. I decided not to do that no matter what the consequences were. And I did not. The worst thing that can happen is losing oneself.
When I was a child I was never happy but no one seemed to care. I wanted to have uncles, cousins, grandparents, but none of those things. So I grew up repressed by not being able to talk to family or friends. I felt I had very low esteem.
If I hadn't had the sense to create my financial independence I would never have increased my self-esteem. I only achieved it by studying and learning.
Complaining only helped me to put my conditions to others. I wanted everyone to know the limits to approach me. No one would abuse me with their mistreatment, or hit me with their words.
For me, complaining became my best survival tool.
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Saya hanya bisa mendoakan anda semoga anda baik-baik saja, jika dengan mengeluh membuat anda lebih baik, lakukan tapi saya hanya menyarankan kalau mau berkeluh kesah dengan orang-orang di dekat anda hendaknya berhati-hati karena tidak semua orang baik di depan dan di belakang akan membicarakan keburukan kita.
Thank you for your good wishes. I have to tell you that I have already gone through those and other bad times with family and friends.
Thank you very much for stopping by, reading and commenting. I am pleased with what you have said.
Saya sangat senang sekali mendengar jika anda telah melewati semuanya...dan itu sangat bagus sekali, semoga hari-hari anda kedepannya selalu di penuhi dengan kasih sayang dan kebahagian serta kegembiraan yang akan mewarnai hidup anda kedepannya
Thank you very much for those wishes. I also wish you a healthy and prosperous life.
Amin, terimakasih atas doa terbaiknya temanku 🙏🌹
When you decide to stop pretending that everything is fine and accept the consequences, that is when your personality becomes stronger and when you grow up you make decisions.
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