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RE: Contest | 25-Word Comment - Monkey Business | Complaints
It seems impossible to abandon or go against the environment and lifestyle to which a person is accustomed since childhood.
Time is the greatest healer. With the passage of time, countless changes occur in a person.
And it is also a fact that a person can never walk on a straight path.
Every person has different priorities, which he keeps changing according to time and circumstances.
I hope you will not follow in your parents' footsteps but will become a friend to your children and provide them with a good environment.
Many prayers for you.
Thank you for these prayers. I am an old woman now. I had one child who is now 24 years old. We are friends, even though they say there is no friendship between parents and children, I can assure you we are friends.
He tells me everything that happens to him and I tell him the same. Our relationship is based on communication. He knows everything I went through with my parents and he knows that there is forgiveness in my heart. I don't live with hatred or resentment, I just learned to live under the complaint. My son has his style and did not learn to complain like me, and I thank God for that.
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I am very happy to know this and Ma Sha Allah your son is very intelligent.
I also have a son who is about to turn 3 years old. I also want to be a friend to my son. Because the bond of friendship is very precious.
You can write a story in which you describe the moments you spent with your son. You are an ideal mother. Tell the world, so that the bonding between parents and children can be strong.
And such good events are beneficial for all of us.
Have a nice day.
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Thank you very much for your words. I hope you have a happy life with your son. May you two can be good friends.
I have written a lot on that subject of mother and son friendship, and will continue to do so.
Have a happy day.
یہ انسانی فطرت ہے کہ انسان اپنی زندگی میں یا اپنے بچپن میں جو بھگت چکاتا ہے وہ اپنے بچوں کے اوپر نہیں گزارتا اور اس کی کوشش ہے ہوتی ہے کہ اپنے بچوں کو ایسا ماحول بالکل بھی نہ پیش کر سکے جیسا وہ خود برداشت کرتا ایا ہے خاص طور سے ایسی چیزیں جو اس کو ناپسند رہ چکی ہیں
I think quite the opposite of what you say. Many parents can only give from what they received because they did not learn anything else.
I have a son, I was also somewhat harsh in character with him, but not to the same extent as I was treated. But I did hold my frustrations for many years until complaining helped me to get out of so much resentment.
It helped me a lot that I read a lot, studied a lot, assimilated that we take our frustrations out on others and that should never be so. My son and I are good friends, thank God.
میں بھی تو یہی بات کہہ رہی ہوں کہ اپ اپنے بچپن میں کافی برا وقت گزار چکے ہیں اس لیے اب اپنی اولاد کے ساتھ اتنا ہی اچھا وقت گزارنے کی کوشش کرتی ہیں کیونکہ انسان ہمیشہ اس چیز کے اپوزٹ جاتا ہے جو اس نے بکتی ہے۔
There are some experiences in life which do not only teach us to do somethings in certain way. But, it teaches us every single detail of it. Not because of, how harsh or hard that experience is. But, because of how much we had deep feelings about it at the time.
God bless,
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That is what experiences are for, to teach us. But bad experiences also teach us and it is up to us to know how to filter the good ones in the bad ones, to be able to live better and healthier.