There is no excuse for cheating; let's call a spade a spade. A man who cheats will always do so, no matter how neat and beautiful his wife is. It's a matter of self-discipline and respect. The truth is that you can help your wife become the woman you want, instead of seeking fulfillment outside the relationship.
I really appreciate your views on the matter and I want to use this medium to appreciate people like you who dispite having a handful of house hold chores still maintain a beautiful appearances even while at home.