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RE: A Mistake I Made and What I Have Learned is that Steem is NOT for BetterLife
Hi @wakeupkitty thank you so much for sharing your experience with us, sincerely you're not the only in this, sometimes I do feel that helping is a mistake because of how it turns out, but that's not the case, the truth is that so many people are bunch of ingrates, if you support or help them they will turn your enemies believing that your showing up so immediately they get back on their feet they kick you down. But we shouldn't stop showing goodness to others because of them because only God will reward us.
Perhaps the only solution is to be more careful with whom you support. I will not let anyone kick me down again ever without a word from my side. If it was only me I would shrug and say: I pity you, and slam my head against the wall because I was manipulated again, but like said this affects my family too.
I want my children to know this is not normal behaviour and there's no need to help everyone, especially not if we are in need too.
Both my youngest had bad experiences a few months ago as they donated to someone on the streets, being scolded at, the youngest harrashed because to the "the needy person's" opinion they could have given more (both rarly have cash and if it's not more than 3 steem a week).
We can wait for god's reward or buckle up, find the strength, and teach a lesson or learn from it. Isn't that how we raise our children?
If there's no lesson to learn, there's no improvement, what is the point of talking about mistakes?
Thank you for your kind comment and heartfelt words.
Blessed be
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You're absolutely right 👍 the only thing is that we don't have the power to read the mind. But then let's continue to good to others and shun those who took our kindness for granted because they don't worth it!
A good advice! Let's go for that, you are a wise woman.