I strongly feel it's awkward for a lady to make advances at a guy. It backfires most times. Am talking from experience.

Men naturally are chasers, they love to hunt for their food if I should put it like that. When the table turns round sometimes, it puts some of them off. While some will simply see you as cheap.

I have lots of male friends and that's their opinion. They don't like it when ladies make the first move. And as a lady, it makes one feel cheap as if you are throwing yourself on a man. Then Some men who are not matured enough treat the women as if they are second class citizens because after all you were the first to make a move.

So I'd just advice any woman to pls retain your honour. Admire from afar. If the man like you, he should be bold enough to let you know he wants you. The bible left the finding to men after all. He that findeth not she that findeth.