How To Discuss S*X Education at Home
I'll be doing some intense blog for further improvement and uniqueness. If you feel annoyed in my article for today you may skip and I fully understand why, lets keep rolling my topic for today.
Let's do I recap who's Usagi in short or better known as @usagigallardo15 I'm a young mom at the age of 17 I had my first my child she's 18 Next to her is my son 15 years old had undergo his circumstances or "tuli" and last but not the least 9 a boy and a young but sweet 5 year old girl. I already had a legal age child so why do I need to do this. I remember I talked to them this way so maybe that's the reason why they didn't walk on the path that I did...
What do you think made me create this Blog? Every answers is correct if you're still with me reading. As a full time mom I admit that I never knew what will happen to me after I make love with my husband. It's not that I wasn't aware on the consequence but the knowledge I had is only from the school I've had and it was quite short and understandable. But my mom, we didn't talked about it till I have the nerve to tried it out hahaha.
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I rebelled into my mom because we were in the same house but we never met. She had no spare time for me because she work day and night. It took long for me to realize that she's all doing that for my sake because my father left us at my very young age. She didn't even talk about how my dad courted her maybe it's like she'll be hurt if I asked and asked all over again. I shut my mouth and understand her longing ess. She never had other man aside from my father and maybe that's the reasons why she didn't tell me anything about s*x education or how it was when I make it on a wrong time.
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I wouldn't tell how we did it! because every mother and parent will sure understand me of doing this topic. I don't want my wrong moves before! suffer my kids. I want them to realize that time is really important because we can never turned back it's hand again. So we must be sure of what decision and path will take.
My eldest son and daughter saw my big tummy on their younger siblings. I explained to them that's made out of love. Sex is when a woman and man make love with each other but if your not in a settled mind you mustn't take actions on it. I mean our family went through a lot they saw hard to take care of a our baby to hear it cries when it's hungry and how hard to make money just to feed them.
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My eldest daughter told me she just wants to be a old lady. She doesn't want to have a family because she was stuck now taking care of her siblings she saw and experience how hard it is. I told my eldest son to take more responsibility because his a man that no matter how hard life, he must carry his family on his own. Like his father did to us tired but restless, sleepless for days but after that he'll catch fish on his day off instead of resting of two days. I told my son to be inspired by his father because we're lucky to have a responsible man in the house.
Having sexual intercourse is so divine that after just few of doing it, it will suddenly change our life. I only want my kids to fully understand the situation. Specially to my eldest daughter I told her I have her when I was 18 so I was 17 when we were making her so I told her to be more aware of her self. And I'm not shy to tell the world what mistake I did because my mistake will not be corrected by another mistake so I want my kids to choose the path that had been guided by us, were not perfect parents will let our kids made mistake but to let them learned what the consequences it may take.