They for sure try to manipulate you in every way. If you refuse there are who really become mad. It's good they are all overseas and there's no need to give your home address or e-mail address these days.

It still beats me how you can get married in prison so easily. How you can get married easily at all. In the Netherlands they ask you for all kinds of papers, they check you out, you have to wait after that at least two weeks and you can not get married everywhere you like or with whom you like.

Perhaps the obsession is the same as having a special pet? Something else as most people have?