You've hit the nail on the head. It's fascinating how different perspectives on wisdom can clash, even within the same society. It's true, there's no single "right" answer when it comes to things like marriage. It's all about what works best for the individual and their circumstances.

That's what makes life so interesting, right? We all have our own unique experiences and beliefs that shape our views. I think it's important to respect both rural and urban wisdom, because each has its own value. It's all about finding the balance that works for you.

Mind you, as much I said not all elderly are wise people, I did not also say all elderly are stupid people... I just highlighted the fact that even stupid people grow old...

Let me ask a common belief around this part of Africa. Do you accept that all old people are witches? Exactly, 😂😂. If someone is elderly but rich, the person is considered to be enjoying their wealth but if that person is poor, I bet you the tune will be different.