When friends betray me
INTRODUCTION
Hello everyone, how are you all doing today? I hope you all are good. Today I'm writing about betrayal and here are the details about it.
IN YOUR UNDERSTANDING, TELL US WHAT YOU UNDERSTAND BY THE WORD BETRAYAL?
Betrayal is when a person is not being faithful/loyal to you. It's when a person have hidden , bad intention towards another and covering it up with a smile. It's can also be defined as when one have a hidden jealousy and then secretly plot a way to frustrate another but then covering it up with a cheerful/friendly manner . It's also when one pretentiously like another but have some wicked plans toward them.
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN BETRAYED BY ANYONE?TELL IS WHAT HAPPENED.
Yes I've gotten betrayed once by one ofy friend. It was around the beginning of a new year (Jan) when I had a plan to save money for something important. And I know the kind of person I am , that plan will not work if I keep the money in my care. So I decided to give the money to my friend. Everyday I'll give her 200 Naira and any amount of money I have. This happened for close to 6months and when I was sure the money will be Enough , I demanded for it.
This friend of mine told me that the money was used. she told me she gave the money to her mom to use and put in her business. I was alarm, I was devastated, disappointed, I felt really bad. The thought of my plan being ruined , the thought of me neglecting the things I would've used my little pocket money to buy got me really upset. I asked her when she'll refund the money and she kept giving me excuses , even till now I haven't gotten the money . Although I've forgotten about the money, the pain she caused me still hurt like hell.
WE KNOW THAT BETRAYAL LEAD TO HEART BREAK, TELL US WAYS TO HEAL FROM SUCH BETRAYAL.
In order to heal from such betrayal, u must try to talk less about what bring about the betrayal, one must not trust the person with the thing that led to the betrayal, one must move on and stop dwelling on the past.
HOW DO YOU WITH PEOPLE WHO HAVE BROKEN YOUR HEART SEVERAL TIMES?
I'LL avoid the person at all cost. Even if that person comes apologizing, I'll accept the apology but we can never be close again. I'll never share my plans and secret to them.
<div class="text-center"CONCLUSION
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