Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 82, Conflict and resolution.

Having misunderstanding with people is a normal thing, someone can have problems with you when something bad is said about that person. Like yesterday I was choked and I needed water to drink and this was in church, so I saw my choir member water I drank it but surprisingly to me this fellow got so angry and thrown the remaining water away, I was so choked and angry at the same time and I wonder why people behave the way the behave, her annoyance is that I should have taken permission from her, meanwhile she was not there when I took the water. But it is well and I am still in shock.

To my own understanding, conflict is when two or more people come to disagreement or clash, it can be family members, coursemate, colique at your place of work or even here in steemit. I can remember just of recent that a certain steemians try to bring misunderstanding tagging Nigerian leaders and community. This was something that would have cause a lot of issues here, I believe here we should try to make friends from different countries that creating enemies.

There are so many ways in which conflict can be resolved regarding the place

• One of the best way is through open communication and dialogue where everyone that is involved express his or her thoughts and feelings in a manner that will please everyone.
  With this everyone will then understand each other point of views and from the the conflict will be dissolve without further expansion.

• Another way we can resolve conflicts is through mediation, this is where a some one on a neutral ground intervenes to help come up with a solution that will be acceptable by both party without any further misunderstanding.

• Another way of solving Conflict can also be successful through negotiation where the both parties involve can discuss their interests and priorities, and then work together to find a solution that meets their needs.

• last option on my list to resolve conflict is by seeking professional help such, one can decide to go for counseling or therapy to address underlying issues and improve communication and relationship dynamics.

Yes I have encountered it before, one day we had a church program at ibom hall, this place is a government setting, is a place that I have been going, so I needed to charge my phone because it was low, so reaching there none of my choir members wanted charge their phones because they didn't know if it can be allowed.
So I quickly charged my phone in one of the sockets and one of us stood and say that she didn't know that it can be allowed so she charged her phone too, then after charging, I went to the front seat and seat, after some minutes my phone was brought to me and I ask questions, the person that brought my phone told me that they want to plug television so at the back seat can watch what was going on in front.

After few minutes I stood up to confirm as I went some other phone was charged not the television so I didn't get angry at first, I volunteer for them to use my charger since is fast charging, then the other person her phone percentage was almost full so I told once her own is full she should charge my phone since I was the first person to charge phone there, and then I went back to my seat, but surprisingly to me, going back to check if she has charge my phone, another person was charging her phone then I got angry collect my charger took my phone to my seat, but to my surprise in church a lady reported me and said I was fighting in the church program and me I didn't know there was a fight after I left to my seat.

So my pastor's wife ask me what happened and I narrated everything to how and at the end I find out that there was a fight when I left, so at the end the lady that reported me apologized and those that forght were brought out.

As far as we are human there must be conflict but the best thing to do is to try all possible best to solve it without prolonging the issues.