Contest Alert: Your Losses in Life

Hey, trust everyone here is good. I'm also doing great by the grace of God. it's a pleasure to participate in this contest organised by @bossj23 in the Steem4nigeria community. Before diving into the amazing topic that says Your Lesson in Life, i would like to invite @Josepha @m-fdo @el-nailul @ninapenda to engage in these topics.

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• WHAT HAVE YOU LOST IN LIFE THAT MADE YOU CRY OR FEEL DISTRESSED? COULD BE INANIMATE OR ANIMATE. NARRATE YOUR EXPERIENCE.

Well, it was the period i lost my phone, and it was a heart-rending experience that i had. It happened when i slept outside because we had a power issue, and they were no diesel to turn on our generator. Then i decided to stay outside because the heat inside the room was much, and i was with my phone. Then, when i was feeling sleepy, i put my phone beside me, and i slept off. It was already 2am. When i woke up around 5 a.m., because the weather was too cool and i couldn't find my phone, i was thinking perhaps my brothers had picked up my and his making use of it. But, when i asked them, they told me they're not with it. i was confused thinking it was just a prank because the house we live in is well secured, and i haven't witnessed things like this before. When i raised the alarm , the security and my brothers were trying to call the number it was switched off. My plan was to arrest everybody in the compound, but i feel if i made that step, my brothers should also be among them, and they just came to visit me. I later discovered that one guy came in to visit my neighbour's chef, and the chef wasn't around, and the boy slept over and left the compound very early, according to our guard. But through the investigation, it was the guy that stole my phone, and he still lied. My brothers and my friends wanted to beat him up, but i disagreed because looking at him, he's not healthy. That's was how my phone disappeared it really affected me because that was what i used to process my work. Even the chef lost his job because he gave someone access to the compound without being present.

• DID YOU BLAME YOURSELF FOR THE LOSS, or WERE YOU MEANT TO LOSE THAT THING? HOW DID THE LOSSES AFFECT YOU?

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I couldn't put the blame on myself because i have been in that compound for years. Sometimes, i leave my things outside, and nothing will happen to it. The affection was much, I lost all my contacts with my vital password and document save in my phone. It really stresses my life. For instance, i had to go to the network office to retrieve my phone number and the money i keep for something else i have to take from it to buy a new phone only the phone cost me 200k excluding the retrieve of my two lines which one of the line was having issue to retrieve i had to buy new sim. The loss really drew me backwards because i wasn't planning for it .

• WE'RE YOU ABLE TO LET BYGONE BE BYGONE, OR ARE YOU STILL IN PAIN FOR THE LOSS?

Well, i put it in the past after all the grief that it cost me because no matter how small or big you lost something, you most feel the pain. I learned from the loss because it teaches me to be vigilant even when you're dossing off.

• WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU Give THE PUBLIC WHO MAY HAVE LOST SOMETHING or SOMEONE PRECIOUS TO THEM?

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My advice to anyone who had experienced any losses in his or her life is that you should try to put the situation in the past no matter the level of the loss. I understand that it's hot, but don't let it be your downfall. Rather, look into it and know the areas you're at faulty and don't let it happen again. If the loss is about someone precious to you, this really pains a lot, but it's nature, and you have to adapt to it.

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