When friends betray you

in Steem4Nigeria6 days ago

I will salute the house before I commence fully. Greetings to @ruthjoe. Greetings to curators. Greetings to my fellow Steemians. Today I would be speaking on: When friends betray you!.

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in your understanding tell us what you understand by the word betrayal?

In my own understanding, betrayal is an act of breaking ones feeling, making the person feel cheated and distrusted.

Have you ever been betrayed by anyone? Tell us what happened

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There is this girl I felt in-love with when I was in school. She promised to be with me forever, and so I gave her my heart. I gave it out freely without getting anything as collateral. I was ready to do anything for her, buying her the mansions she désires, get her the pleasant things that makes life looks good.

One fateful morning, I met a message on my phone screen Babe. I can't date you again. I'm with someone else. It was like a dream to me, so I have to swipe my face over and over again to see if it will still appear. I did that thrice, same thing appeared. No doubt! I had to continue my life, but that was a deep betrayal. She did not just break my heart, but she stole away my emotion, betrayed me for a penny.

we know that betrayal may lead to heartbreak, tell us ways to heal from such betrayal?

  • Delete the person's picture from your phone completely.

  • Blacklist the person's phone number.

  • Unfriend and unfollow the person's account in any of your social media account if you both were friends before.

  • Blank your heart by reading the word of God continually. Listen to Godly music's. Let Jesus Christ become your boyfriend and Holy spirit your girlfriend. By the time you do this, within one week, the thought on her or he would no longer exist anymore in your life.

Note: this is bored out of experience. I did it and I was save. You too can try it.

And lastly,

  • After doing all these things, don't ever think of her.

The reason why you blacklist her is that, after you must've delivered yourself from thinking of her, unlist the number so that when she calls you to apologize later, you can pick to hear his/her nonsensical nonsense. By then, your hearts must've been healed. Hope you were blessed! Please supports for more.

How do you deal with people who have broken your heart several times?

Don't treat them as bad. Treat them as your angel. Remember, nothing is bad and nothing is good. It's your mindset that makes it bad. And also note that every mistakes is a lesson. Treat her good, even as queen, but don't give her that chance anymore into your hearts.

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 6 days ago 

Saludos amigo espero estes bien, yo pase por una traición similar mi manera de sanar también fue no saber nada de esa persona, una vez que pasamos por esa mala experiencia confiar se nos vuelve más difícil de recontruir, un abrazo.

 6 days ago 

Rezo para que las acciones que apliqué durante esta ruptura ayuden a sanar a otros o que puedan haber encontrado desafíos similares. Gracias por tu reseña. Estoy demasiado bendecido.

 6 days ago 

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I can just imagine how broken you must have been. Anyways, it's good to moved on. Best of luck in this contest.

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 5 days ago 

Thankyou for this review