Thank you for the review

What if this relative is a cousin to your husband and the relative is a grown up lady, would your boundaries be extended to locking or caging her when you're not around and your husband is at home?

Good question, I believe marriage should be built on trust and knowing who your partner is, what we are talking about here is a relative coming to break your home. Since she is my partner's relative, in my absence, I guess you meant to feed my partner ideas to turn against me which would cause trouble between us. But when you know who you have, nothing can come between you both, even when negative things that are not true are said about any of you.

Boundaries I meant in my post are not caging any relative, but they should respect my partner and me, and not abuse privileges.