CONTEST by @ngoenyi #16 | One Thing I think is important that everyone experiences | #Club5050 | Entry by @frankie14

frankie14 (48)in Steem Kids & Parents • 3 years ago

Greetings everyone

I’m delighted to participate in this contest. I wish all participants success.

There are some fundamental life processes which every human being will go through, such as birth, growth and death. This is common knowledge.

In my opinion though, another experience which everybody will experience at some point in their life is HEARTBREAK.

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Heartbreak could simply be described as event which causes someone deep emotional hurt. It honestly feels like a strong sharp pain in your chest that stabs when you remember what happened. It almost feels like physical pain. Some have even claimed that they felt the pain of heartbreak physically as in chest or body pain.
What makes heartbreak so painful is the shock that comes with it because most times , the “victim” didn’t expected such an occurrence.

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In today’s society, the most common occurrence of heartbreak is in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. It could be caused by one person finding out their partner is cheating on them, or that their partner cheated in the past or did something else which felt like betrayal.
It’s the betrayal that brings the shock because you would never predict that the person you love would do that to you.

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It’s also this betrayal that makes everyone else (not just those in relationships), susceptible to heartbreak. We interact with people on a daily basis; in business, in friendship or even with a family member. Sometimes we build a connection with people and learn to trust them. Then suddenly, someone does something to us which we never expected and it leaves us shattered.
Truth be told, as humans we’re driven by emotions and we trust people quickly, and let our guard down emotionally. This can become a weakness because humans also aren’t perfect and are prone to make mistakes every now and again. Some mistakes, though, prove more costly and hurt us more than others.

Funnily enough this has happened to all of us before. And if you haven’t experienced this then you almost certainly will.

The importance of heartbreak is that it actually shows us how strong we are. It shows us that we can continue moving ahead in life even after something as tragic as heartbreak occurs. It also teaches us how to forgive because honestly after someone breaks your heart, the longer you hold onto the hurt, the longer you drown in sadness. Letting go of that hurt relieves you of a great burden and sets you free. Overall, it’s a learning opportunity and helps us grown personally as individuals.

I believe still, and I would advise anybody I can to forgive just as easily and quickly as we learn to trust people we love.

And that’s what I think everyone, every single human being will pass through within their lifetime, as bleak as it sounds, heartbreak.