This is my story where Sorry saved the situation"
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Hello My Steemain Friends ,
How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting and knowledgeable contest which is launched by @ngoenyi all time my favourite topic ""“Sorry! A Word That Unites So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic
You are absolutely right that we have to use the word sorry very often. I feel that if it is our mistake, then there should be no problem in saying sorry and there is absolutely no problem in saying sorry to our loved ones. This will not make you small, rather your relationship will become stronger.
Just keep in mind that only one person should not always say sorry, when whoever is at fault in the family says sorry, only then the relationship becomes strong. If only one person is asked to say sorry again and again, then the value of that sorry gets lost.
I sit with my husband in his shop, but sometimes I make mistakes in the shop despite not wanting to. I don't want to do it, but it happens. My husband expects from me that just like he is working in the shop, I will also be able to work in the same manner. But he has only the responsibility of the shop, I have the responsibility of the shop, house, children's education and I work a little on estimates, so sometimes there is so much pressure of work that I don't get time and I make mistakes without wanting to.
And I will not say that I make big mistakes. The same small ones like I forgot to tell something or I don't remember a rate, I don't make more mistakes than this. But my husband has a habit of making a mountain out of a molehill. My husband is very good, but sometimes it seems that he pays more attention to my mistakes, finds mistakes. My husband says that your mind is busy with the phone all day, your mind is not in the shop.
And all these things lead to bitterness, anger disturbs the atmosphere of the house. Children start getting disturbed because it is obvious that if there is even a little tension between mom and dad, it will affect the family. So before the situation reaches this stage, I say a small word, sorry and there is magic in this word sorry. It works very quickly.
Now I know that the other person likes to hear sorry. It is not that only I make mistakes. It is not that my husband never makes any mistakes, it is another thing that he does not accept his mistakes sometimes. Now there is tension in the house in making someone accept the mistake. Better than that say a small word sorry and move on. To keep the atmosphere of the house healthy, I often say sorry to my husband.
Children also make mistakes, if someone makes a big deal out of my husband, then I tell my children to say sorry immediately, I do not have time to listen.
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I do not like to argue much, I do not lie. But if the other person is not able to understand the point right now, then the best thing is to say sorry and end the matter right there. Because if the matter escalates too much, bitterness increases.
It is a family, if there are four utensils, then they will definitely make noise. Such small things keep happening in the family and if there is a family, there are responsibilities, then mistakes will definitely happen and in future also, by using this magical word, one can easily avoid them.
To be honest, now it does not matter much to me to say this word. Wherever I see that the matter is getting worse, I immediately use this weapon called sorry and get rid of it. 😆 Hahaha
I would invite my few friends , @chant , @solperez , @artist1111
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Thankyou so much for your support @memamun.
Sorry is like a key to a healthy relationship even when it feels like it's not your fault or problem.
I can see how far this word has gone in settling ur marital problems and bringing your family together. Keep up. Hope to hear from u soon.
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Sorry has it own potentials and also it's ways of settling problems and issues in a relationship.... Thanks for your unique Participation It is highly recommended 😊
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