Stories, learnings and reflections #02/(My regret for being evil)

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Tell us about an incident that happened to you or someone else or that you heard

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I'm sure everyone has made mistakes in their life, including myself, but some people choose to be selfish with their mistakes so that they don't want to correct their mistakes so that they drown in failure due to their own mistakes.

So it is with me, in my childhood I was a stubborn person and always felt that I was the most right among my friends and anyone I met, I was very selfish because I didn't want to listen to advice or words from other people.

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I also have a cunning mind so that I am willing to trouble other people for my own pleasure. Even every time I talk to other people, without realizing it I always create debates to make myself feel right.

I even don't hesitate to lie with my stories, I am really a cunning person like a wolf in sheep's clothing when I was little, I used to be a stingy person but I also liked to ask my friends, these are bad traits that I myself really hate now so that it makes me feel very guilty.

The impact on you and what you learn from it

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The impact that I feel from the negative behavior and traits above is, I feel like I am being shunned by my friends and they don't even like to chat with me, I also like to be called stingy to myself and what makes my friends annoyed is because I also like to beg.

After feeling that there is something wrong with me, I finally reflected on myself again to find out what is wrong with me that my environment hates me so much.

Finally I learned one very important thing, namely that I have to change my bad attitude and behavior so that anyone who is beside me feels comfortable with my behavior.

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The result is that now I have succeeded in becoming a quiet person and prefer to listen to others, I really regret my selfish attitude in the past which makes me feel ashamed when I remember it now.

I have also changed to become a person who is no longer stingy so that I have many friends, hopefully all my friends can learn from my life story so that we can all become better people.

This is my entry for Contest: Stories, Learning and Reflections #02 organized by my sister @alexanderpeace, I would also like to invite @dekki, sister @anailuj1992 and also brother @sahmie to participate together in this contest.