Contest: Stories, Learnings and Reflections #01

in Steem Fashion&Style4 days ago (edited)

Assalamu Alaikum,
Hello everyone,
I am @afrinn

From #Bangladesh

Assalamu Alaikum how are you all Alhamdulillah good and healthy here steem for fashion style @alexanderpeace sister brought us a very nice competition. I am very happy to participate here. The mode of participation here is that I will start answering questions about what happened to me, so let's start here.

Tell us about something that happened to you or others or that you heard about

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This happened to me in my school life. I am a quiet girl. So I always think of people as mine. I had a button phone when I pulled the class. Sometimes I used to take it to school. I had a few girlfriends in my life who were the joy of my life. So I never thought about them. I have always thought of them as my own. But we had a close girlfriend with whom I dated for about five years. But I never thought you would treat me like this. My phone dey used to talk and see her boyfriend sometimes. But he had no personal phone. In that case a few days later I again took the phone to school to help my girlfriend but my phone suddenly disappeared from the bag. But I investigated the whole class and found that no one else called the phone but my close friend took it but that friend never admitted it. Since then I have come to think that people should think for themselves but not blindly believe.

The impact it had on you (ie; what it reflected on you and what you learned from it. For example; you can learn to be humble from the story of the fall of a proud man)

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The reason this act had a confusing effect on me was because the phone was my mother's. When I didn't find the phone anymore, I went home. My girlfriend didn't even admit that the phone was with her. But I can share the percentage of the phone and say this phone to him. No one knew that I carried the phone to school except my close friend. I had no choice when he denied the call. So I went to my house with a lot of tension. Even my mother had no answer. My mom keeps asking me where the phone is I did not tell my mother about my girlfriend at that time. Because if my mother hears, our close friendship will be destroyed. So I told my mom that the phone must have fallen from my bag somewhere on the road. My mom is very confused on me. And my mom scolds me a lot. From here I learned that it is good to help people but not too much. Because behind the mask of people there are different forms. Which we may not be able to imagine.

What you have learned or reflected on and how you applied it or what you intend to do with it in your life or teach it to others.

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What I have learned is to never trust people blindly, be it your best friend or your best friend. I never thought in my life that my best friend would cheat on me like this. But anyway, his little cheat taught me a lot. Because he only took my phone I thought he could take more from me. I already distanced myself. So that his relationship with me is not so good. Because betrayal destroys people's lives. So every man should know and believe but not all should. And even if you believe then it is not like a blind person no matter how own you are. Bro I learned a bit from my best friend. It just saved me from the phone and other distractions. If the relationship with you was deeper, I might have been a little more evil. Anyway this was a short story about my own incident.


Thank you all for reading my post


I would like to invite some of my friends to this contest. They are,
@muzack1 @damithudaya @vivigibelis @miftahulrizky @karianaporras @ahsansharif @memamun @anailuj1992 @edgargonzalez @dasudi

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LocationBangladesh 🇧🇩📷
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From #bangladesh

Allah Hafeez

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