I am so unsuccessful now that I am more afraid of losing than getting anything!
How are you all, friends? I hope you are all very, very well. Today I will discuss an important topic with you. And the topic that I want to discuss today is familiar to many.
There are some feelings in our lives that cannot be expressed verbally, and many times cannot be fully understood even if written. Still, today I thought I would talk about one thing that I want to talk about a lot. Actually, friends, I am so unsuccessful now that the fear of losing works more before getting anything! I cannot overcome the fear that works in my mind before even getting anything, let alone getting it.
Every one of us reaches a point in our lives once or twice, where we do not like to dream, because then it seems that if we dream, we will have to lose something! And we do not feel like enduring the pain of losing again and again! So I am thinking, if we stay a little away this time, do not touch anything, then maybe the pain of losing will be less. Let's see what happens.
I know that many people may not understand the meaning of these words. Many of us say, "Hey brother, life is forward. What will happen if you stop because of fear? What will happen if you are afraid?" There are many who will say these words. But I say, they may not know how dreams are repeatedly shattered before our eyes. How the people we love the most leave us with tears. How the thing we want the most even when it comes close to us, suddenly moves away.
Many times in our lives, we suffer from the pain of not getting it before we even want it. Basically That's why our mind says, Don't ask for something, because you won't get it. And this fear of not getting it becomes so real that before we get something, we think, No, it's not for me. Maybe this is my destiny. Whatever is in our destiny will never be more than what is in our destiny.
In fact, those of us who are a little more emotional suffer a little more in this world. Because we give too much importance to every relationship, every dream, every moment. And the more precious something is, the deeper the pain of losing it becomes.
Many of my friends and relatives also say, "Your problem is that you think too much." But no one understands, this "thinking too much" is out of our control. We cannot stop it even if we want to. Because once a broken mind is not normal again. It is like a cloudy glass, in which everything is visible, but not sparkling.
But I also know that even in this fear of loss, there may be a ray of hope somewhere. Maybe one day I will find something that will prove the fear of loss false. Maybe I will find someone who will say, "Don't be afraid, I will be there." Maybe then I will be able to build myself anew, where there will be not only failure, but also courage and success.
However, friends, I have shared several things with you, about an important issue in life. I hope you liked it.