Incredible India Monthly Contest Of February #2| Do you believe every successful man there is a woman?

I am @favycliff .

My humble appreciation to the admins @maraindia who brought up this contest.

This particular topic has resulted to lot of controversies in our society today where men claim they are the head and decision makers while women on the other hand claim they are helpers that men can't do without.

To me, I strongly believe in that proverb.
I will first of all start with a story to clear the air based on the topic.

Talking about my family, dad was successful when mum met him. There was a lot of money but dad was influenced with bad friends who never told him what to do with his money. Dad lost his job.

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As time goes on, the wealth started diminishing. A saying said ''riches fly''Friends left meanwhile, they were there because of the wealth they saw. They were parasites indeed.

They lost ties with my dad all because he is now poor. None of them advised him on investing his money. Get it, he was successful but he gradually became poor because he never let my mum know anything about his finance.

Calling some of his friends for help, some had already blocked him while some didn't render him help.

Immediately dad became broke, he eyes were open revealing to him that his friends were the problem. He became really close to mum.
Mum on the other hand, was supportive in all areas reassuring dad that he will bounce back in his financial level.

Mum had to engage in two jobs. Her environmental job and selling of provisions in front of our apartment.

In no distant time, dad got a job as a driver in a company which he does till 12noon then he goes to repair cars from 12 till evening.

Within six months, dad had gotten a lot of income which he used in opening a shop where he sells motor parts. The money now became massive.
Mum believed in dad, and things changed for good and the family became happy again.
Any man you see who is successful is either he has a supportive mother,sister or supportive wife. They are decision maker but mostly they make the wrong decision. Women are helpers.

They help in any way possible just to make things work.
Dramatizing it, a man goes out to work in the morning returning later in the day. The woman is always there to take care of the kids, cooks,do laundry and so on allowing the man focus on his business in other to be successful.

A wealthy man who has no mother or wife to get advice from check very well, most of them squander their money partying and so on.
If a man get into a difficult situation today, relating it to his wife, his wife gives him nice advice which will help him scale through his problems.

In maintaining balance in our relationship both parties needs to be care for, respected, humble, loyal this will help keep relationship in an equilibrium.

But I feel women should be given equal rights. As homemakers they are, they are leaders of a kind. Any organization without women are blunt do not run smoothly.

We have this special wisdom of playing a mother role anywhere. Gone are those days when women are not respected.

Women are empathetic
Women are compassionate
Women are passionate
Women are rare gems
Women are homemakers
Women are creative
Women are resourceful

And am glad to be a woman

I invite you @fuli @jueco and @m-fdo to please join this contest.