Adulthood without a filter

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Adulthood without a filter

What has been the most difficult thing to accept in adult life?

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For many of the people, the most difficult and challenging thing is to accept the loss of control and the certainty of alterations.As children, we have a sense of invariability and structure with the adults in charge of our lives.The adulthood brings a heartfelt and intense shift in this dynamic.Suddenly, we are responsible for our choice.

One of the most challenging thing is to accept that we have inability to govern everything we can't control everything.Life throws curve balls and in spite of efforts sometimes things cann go as we have planned. The problems in the jobs, relationship problems and issues with the health and financial issues are some of the challenges that can interrupt our carefully arranged plans.

Accepting this lack of control can be extremely irritating and frustrating which can lead to the anxiety, depression and stress.The adult life is signified by constant change.

Is it bad to maintain adolescent attitudes as an adult? Why or why not?

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It can be seen as a positive and a negative by maintaining the adolescent attitude into the adulthood but it depends on the specific attitudes and their manifestations.When we talk about the positive side.

A willingness to try and explore new things can lead to the growth personally. A strong desire of the idealism can make the adults to prepare them to persue career.Another positive aspect of maintaining the adolescent attitude in the adulthood can enhance the relationship and can also be helpful to improve the overall well being.

But on the other hand, there are also negative impacts of maintaining the adolescent attitude in the adulthood. One of the major issues of maintaining the adolescent attitude in the adulthood is the lack of responsibility.Another negative impact of maintaining the adolescent attitude in the adulthood is that poor decision making in finances and career choices because the adolescents are less concerned than the adults.

Do you think that being an adult is as “free” as it was portrayed to you as a child?

As a child, the thought of being as adult was often painted with the strokes of freedom, this freedom was about to make own choices and to persue anything what we will want without any hesitation and without any restrictions.but the reality is almost opposite.

In some cases, the adulthood offer us a certain type of freedom. In the case of choosing career you are free to choose what you want.You can travel on your own, explore different experiences, and can control your life on your own.

The freedom in the adulthood can be forced by the societal pressure. A person might feel pressure to observe to certain norms.

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