Hello My Steemain Friends ,

How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting topic is Instagram Love So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic. I am going to share a story with you, which is real and whose results and side effects I have seen very closely.

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"INSTAGRAM LOVE" Oh my God! This word sounds very simple. But to what extent it becomes an enemy of life. It is very important to understand that today's children, in their pursuit of appearing cool, in their pursuit of maintaining the standard that we should also have a boyfriend, girlfriend, put their lives and the lives of their family in danger. I want to make you aware of these things.

I saw this story closely because it is a story of our neighborhood. Due to which everyone got disturbed. A girl lives in our neighborhood, who is only 20 years old. She was so obsessed with social media that as soon as she wakes up in the morning, she starts using the phone till late night, neither studies nor does household chores. Only talking on the phone, chatting, the family members were very upset with this act of hers. Her family loved her a lot. But that girl never appreciated the love of her family.

The girl is wrong, even after knowing this, the family members tried very hard to explain it to her. But that girl was not ready to understand anything. When the parents got upset, they said in anger, is this what you have to do, I will leave the house every day and go with him. If you have to do all this, then call him and get married.

On hearing this, the girl's feelings increased further. She sent a photo of a boy to her mother, aunt on WhatsApp on the phone, Mummy, this is the boy, I want to marry him. As soon as the family members saw that photo, they were stunned. Such a dirty boy, he was not worthy of becoming the son-in-law of that house.

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Even after that, she was explained very well, the vastness of today's comforts was given. How will you manage, he has nothing at home. He was a fanatic in a way, but the girl was not ready to listen to anything. The ghost of false love was so strong that the girl did not see the tears of her parents or the family at home.

Then her parents gave up and told the girl that okay, call him. The girl did not see the festival, did not see anything at home and finalized the date after a week that he is coming. When everyone came to know, everyone got worried that how will it happen, our tickets are booked, it is a festival. She did not even give a chance to think in a hurry and started pressuring the family members to do shopping for her wedding. But the family members did not agree to this, she kept on saying but no one in the house gave her any reply.

Then her maternal uncle came, he explained that daughter wait for a few days. Call him after 15 days, then everyone will be free from the festival and from travelling. Then we will talk comfortably, on hearing this the girl got very angry and said that you people are postponing my marriage date and now that boy will come after two days. You people will not get me married, on hearing this the whole family got more tensed.

How will it happen within two days, she did not even get time to understand, but whoever member of the family tried to explain to her, she would silence everyone by giving a blunt answer. Everyone was so angry that they wanted to slap the girl, but the girl was proud of the fact that now she has become an adult. Now no one can say anything to her and she can take her own decision, this is where the family lost.

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The boy was to come after 2 days, the girl had packed her clothes, then she took a decision with a heavy heart and the whole family went to the police station. There they told the police everything that the boy was coming from a very far away place. The police also tried to convince the girl a lot, it was morning and it was evening, the police were trying to convince her. But it was not making any difference, when the boy came by train in the evening, the police caught the boy and brought him, he looked so dirty that no one would even eat food cooked by him.

But even after that the girl did not back out from her decision, with a heavy heart the whole family took a decision and in the paperwork they ended the relationship with the girl and kept crying, and left the girl's hand and the girl went with the boy.

When the whole family came back home, everyone was unwell, everyone had gone mad from crying, it seemed as if someone had died in the house. The family was in agony that the girl had gone into the wrong hands, but the girl was not ready to accept it. No one slept the whole night in the house, no one ate anything. They just kept crying, the girl had left such a family and gone with a cheap beggar boy.

This is Instagram love, which ruins one's life and the life of the family. The family members did not tell anyone anything due to their embarrassment. They just kept wiping each other's tears, it was so painful to see the helpless family, how a child whom the parents raise and then how he takes away the life of the parents while they are alive, how the children do not think about the respect of their family, the life of the parents and most of all do not think about their own life.

The police were not giving the girl's phone, they said keep the phone. Once everyone got angry and started taking the phone, but then everyone thought that when we have given such a precious thing of ours, then what is the point of the phone, take the phone. Today everything has happened because of this phone. When we could not stop such a valuable thing then why should we stop the phone.

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The parents thought that we had many wishes for our daughter, we are unable to fulfill them, take the phone away, everyone kept crying the whole night, I have a very deep attachment to that place. That is why I was always with them, my family was always involved in their grief. Everyone says that they made a mistake by giving the phone, but what to do, nowadays studies are done through phone, parents are unable to understand whether the child is studying or doing something wrong, what should I say, I cannot understand anything beyond this.

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