Amores virtuales

in Venezolanos Steem14 hours ago

Hello and Namste my steemian Family,

This is my participation in the Contest: Virtual Loves by @mayberling in Venezolanos Steem

Virtual Love? Do they work or not?

✓ What do you think about dating apps?

The world of dating apps has been flooded, initially unmarried couples used to find brides and grooms for themselves through these dating apps. But later these apps started getting misused and the makers of these apps started using them to capitalize on people's attraction and physical desires towards other men and other women.

Now many people are becoming victims of fraud through these apps, in fact whenever we search for a loving partner through these dating apps, we can only see his face and apart from that we do not know anything about him. In most of the cases we get attracted to them just by looking at their looks. Even the app makers themselves do not do extensive verification of their members, in our country these dating apps have basically become a means of extramarital immoral relationships.

In simple words, these dating apps are providing escort services in a way. I have heard that many people have suffered loss of their social, financial and physical status due to these dating apps. But it is not that all these apps are fraudulent, some of these apps register only verified members.

✓ Do you think it is possible that we can fall in love through a computer screen?

No, I do not think we can love someone through a computer screen, because love is a very delicate feeling which can only be born after meeting someone personally many times, understanding them and feeling them. In this way, there is no mutual love between the people who meet through dating apps, but only a physical attraction.

And due to this attraction, we become a victim of deception. When in today's world we make the mistake of understanding even our partner whom we meet personally or are in constant touch with, then how will we be able to know a virtual person.

✓ What are your recommendations for those people who use these applications to meet new people?

My recommendations for those people who are using or want to use such apps to meet unknown people of the virtual world, would be:-

  • Whenever we use such apps, we must check the reliability of these apps.

  • We should not give our personal information to any person of the virtual world without getting complete information about him/her.

  • Before meeting any such person, we must have complete information about his/her education, his/her parents, his/her living habits, his/her past history, his/her marital status, his/her eating habits, his/her financial status etc.

By not doing so, we can become a victim of any scandal or fraud at any time, and such a deceived person, whether he is a woman or a man, is not able to make such things public due to the fear of defamation in the society, and by bearing such pain, he himself goes into depression. And many times its very bad and terrible consequences are also seen.

That is why we should be very careful before making any virtual relationship, because it is said "If caution is lost, then accident happens" "Be informed, be smart"

I also want to invite here: My respected friends @patjewell, @paholags and @senehasa

Thanks for reading my post, I pray to God for the progress and happy future of all Steemians.

With Great love and honour,

Sur-riti❤️

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In my culture at the time, marriage was performed by a Mach Maker. Their parents get them married after only one or two visit, but all of those families have achieved great success. Love, in my opinion, is something that trusts, adores, and sacrifices each other, and after our marriage, we can do all of these for a beautiful life, so why know beforehand?

I know of people who had terrible online "love" experiences, but then I also know of people who fell in love, got married, had children, and are still happy married.
You've nailed it with the fact that whatever we do, we need to be careful and think twice.

Good luck!