Who you actually are, is all God says you are and nobody can erase that. So its either you rise up to this reality and proudly walk in His thoughts for you, or you sit down and allow these temporary life detours determine who you are..
This is an interesting reflection and inspiration from you. If God says you'll be this or that, there's no way anyone can change that. That's one of the wonderful things about God.
Thanks for your words @nanaquojo, will be looking for more inspiration from you.