Stop Making Me Do Things

in Why am I on Steem?5 years ago (edited)

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I Could Be A Total Smartass

and say something insanely clever like, "You see, when a mommy and a daddy love each other very much", or, I could rip on myself and say I was the accident that happened when my parents got drunk on a Fourth of July, but I think she means, how did I find my stupid ass on Steem. Fact #1 - I'm not going to bullshit you. Because, well, let's face it, you'd have to be stupid to come over to some new territory, out of your comfort zone, with dreams of grandeur when Facebook and Tumblr have so many cool things on it already.

On A Mission

Facts is, I was doing just that. I was on a mission to discover what this thing was that was stable on the exchanges and it just so happened, it was (what I thought) a perfect place to market. Which, by the way, if you want to talk about why investors aren't coming over here in drones, we can get in to another time. Fact #2 - Be you - the real you. Turns out, it's NOT the place you want to come and make a new name and try to market your business. At least, not the way I did it. However, I did make a little Steem on my first few attempts, which piqued a new interest and spawned a new mission.

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Discovery

After exploring a bit and seeing people make a ton of money on things I could shit out better in a freezing out house with no toilet paper, I decided I wasn't going anywhere and the marketing bullshit for pennies every single day, took the back seat on the short bus. Fact #3 - There is a learning curve. I wanted to know everything about this blockchain; the capabilities, how tos, whos, whats, wheres, whens, whys and most importantly - the how tos. Did I say that already? Several things I have yet to figure out how to do, all in due time I suppose.

I Started Something

I learned after a few weeks, I was going to need a team if I was going to be half way successful over here. I've always believed by helping others, you help yourself. Pay it forward. Do unto others. These aren't old adages that have stood the test of time for any particular reason, no, it's because they're true. Fact #4 - I'm not going anywhere. @thealliance came to be and is still standing on strong legs for over 2 years. I even became a witness in that time period, which brings us to the second part of @snook's little A #Snookmademedoit Challenge:

Why The Fuck Am I Still Here?

It ain't for the damn money, I'll tell you that. In fact, since becoming a witness, I can only count one month where I was actually 'in the black' and came out ahead based on market prices at the time. I'm also going to say (and this might make some people scratch their heads) that it's not for the community. All the ones I joined prior to creating my own, were really snobbish and there were a lot of assholes that wouldn't give me the time of day because nobody knew who I am and still don't.

Fact #5 - A community is not necessarily a team. Let alone, a family. That's not to say I haven't come in contact or am not a member of some great ones. When I started The Alliance, there was nothing else like it and we filled quite a few holes. Holes that have since been filled by other communities (and whether they admit it or not) that have taken on countless things that we initially did and still do to an extent. But one thing none of them have been able to copy, nor I feel can, is the Family.

Family.

That's why I'm still here, and, this has a duplicity to it. The first side of the coin reflects the concrete foundation I'm building for future generations of my own personal blood line. That same love for my princesses carry in to all I do, especially to my Steem family. I want all of you to have something to pass on, build a legacy with us. Fact #6 - Helping people makes me happy.

The other side of that coin is, I've felt defeated multiple times and almost threw in the towel. But because of the REAL FAMILY I've help to grow and cultivate here, they didn't let me. Is it a community? Sure. But, if one digs in and sets roots, you'll find I am so much more than just a vote. And the thing I love about that effort I've put in, is I've found others that will do the same thing and that, is why I'm still here.


Not the money. Not the community. Not the fun and games. Not the social malfunction and political duress. Despite what I feel about the blockchain and its massive potential, that's not why I'm still here. It's the family, in all its regards. Smiles, fears, hopes and tears - we're here. Much love my peoples, and REMEMBER TO BE YOU! I always am, even while sentimentally frustrated.


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You are still learning the "How to's"?... Oh, good.... I always think by now... I should know it all and I'm nowhere close ;p

Yes, even though I am that distant relative that visits only when I am summoned like for a wedding or funeral.... I still feel welcome :)

So I'm glad you didn't throw in the towel...:D

Thanks love, and yes! There are a bunch of things I have yet to learn and do here and it makes my heart all fuzzy knowing you feel welcome and the door is open to you :)

Ahhhhhhh

You know how I feel about you and how much you have helped me be comfortable being me. You gave me a real home. one where I could follow the rules and understand the rules...

well, except for the BOT talk..... I will NEVER forgive you for those days LOLLL

I wish more people understood how giving you are. How freaking smart you are and how much you make people find and feel comfortable being themselves around you.

YOU are a very special man. I am proud to call you friend and brother and so happy you talked me into staying on Steem that day/night.

YOU truly care about people

HUGS

Hey sis, hope this puts things in more perspective for people. I know you get me, and from the lack of comments here, I don't think others do. Maybe I was too straight forward?

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I'm glad you went out on a limb and became you! Awesome to see how much you've blossomed here.

Much love 🤗🤗🤗🥰

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Very well said, it is fair to say #thealliance is all you - and I'm sure a large proportion of it's members are still here for you alone.

As I said in my post, the most important thing I find throughout Steem is the people and friends I have made - it has so much massive potential to achieve and I am sure we will see that. But quite simply I found so many people around the world, willing to share a few words with me - spend time and help when I needed it. That means more then anything and I will always be thankful for it.

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HA! Love that series. The thing about family is you get to choose here (or anywhere once you 'grow up') who that is. I've been helped a lot and am grateful like you, even thankful to know you on a scale I'm sure others don't. We are kindred spirits, have gone through a lot of the same challenges on and off chain. And the potential here? Ya, immeasurable my man.

I always said... You deserve SO MUCH MORE credit than you get.

You know that I am here for the family to, for the ones that really is genuine and all unconditional love ❤️🤗 caring is sharing!

You know I adore you and you are my hero... For all the reasons I told you.
You care so much for people and has the biggest ❤️
You go out of your way to help people and support others, without expecting anything in return. I seen you grow so much since I got here and you amaze me every day 🤗

Your leadership is unique and I can't thank you enough for bringing me to @thealliance and giving me a true HOME.
Home is where your ❤️ is and mine I'd there.
You had a vision and you have managed to stay true to yourself and leading us forward in the best way. You know I wish you to be on top of witnesses 😉👍

We been through alot together and you are definitely a BIG reason why I'm still here.
Love you bunch 🤗😘💋❤️

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Don't have a reply for this one love. You honor me in so many ways and you're one of the major reasons I'm still running this marathon. Thank you :heart:

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I learned after a few weeks, I was going to need a team if I was going to be half way successful over here. I've always believed by helping others, you help yourself, F%&(&^ its exactly my thoughts , thanks for the story sorry i read it after 9 days
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