I’ve been there. Pink dress just isn’t enough of a sign for some people. It is scary how clueless some people can be. When it comes to other people’s babies I take the safe route and just say “What a cutie.” Never attach a gender. Just creates an opportunity to be wrong. Then you can follow up with “How old?” Again, no gender attached. At some point they have to say “HE” or “SHE”. Manipulate and control the situation. Lol