He is very brave
I used to watch on television a lot about someone making a confession in a church, maybe, I don't really know what place it was, but I saw him standing behind a wall and behind the wall next to him there was also someone listening to whatever he said.
I really admire how brave he is to confess his sins to someone who is considered a good listener and provides solutions, but I would never have the guts to do it except to Allah SWT and in a quiet moment I ask for forgiveness for the mistakes/sins I have committed.
However, a friend of mine came to me because he felt uneasy about his actions which he considered sinful and made him unable to be at peace. He asked me to listen and he said "I want to make a confession" because I could not be at peace if I did not tell my story even though it was a disgrace for me.
However, a friend of mine came to me because he felt uneasy about his actions which he considered sinful and made him unable to be at peace. He asked me to listen and he said "I want to make a confession" because I could not be at peace if I did not tell my story even though it was a disgrace for me.
Until now, his biggest secret is still kept in the corner of my heart and I promise never to tell anyone and until whenever, he now lives far away in another village and our communication is no longer there (lost contact)
Terimakasih buat temanku @wakeupkitty dan @aneukpineung78
Tentu saja ada perbedaan cara antara satu agama dengan agama lain. Yang Anda ceritakan tentang pengakuan dosa yang Anda lihat di filem-filem itu sepertinya tradisi dalam agama Katholik. Cukup berat tanggung jawab Pendeta tersebut untuk mendengar dan tidak membicarakannya dengan orang lain, bayangkan seseorang datang dan mengaku telah mencuri atau membunuh, si Pendeta harus menyimpan itu untuk dirinya sendiri. Tapi saya rasa @wakeupkitty atau @solperez punya penjelasan lebih bagus tentang hal ini, yang walaupun saya pernah menjalin hubungan dekat dengan seorang wanita Katholik, dan memiliki beberapa kenalan yang menganut agama tersebut, tetapi saya tidak pernah mempelajari agama tersebut secara mendalam.
Dalam praktek sehari-hari, seringkali seseorang memang memerlukan untuk berbicara dengan seseorang lain yang dipercayainya tentang hal yang sangat pribadi, termasuk dosa, misalnya. Dalam bahasa pergaulan kita, hal tersebut disebut curhat (mencurahkan isi hati), tetapi ini tidak bersifat relijius, tidak seperti pengakuan dosa dalam tradisi Katholik (atau mungkin juga saya salah).
Soy católica, aunque tengo serias diferencias con la iglesia y con muchos sacerdotes. Diría, que ahora que soy menos ingenua, pues esa es una de mis características: CREER en la gente, incluso en desconocidos, me he dado cuenta de que la "Confesión nos quita un peso de la consciencia, pero JAMÁS nos libra de las culpas".
Ahora bien, no me resulta extraño que un amigo pueda guardar un secreto a otro amigo. Es más, me atrevería a decir que las personas más fieles para guardar secretos y perdonar son las madres. Ellas lo pensarán una y mil veces, antes de declarar que sus hijos hicieron algo malo.
Saludos.
Mothers will know if their child did something wrong but many will try to help them although there are plenty who give up on loving a child the no longer recognise and didn't raise.
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Gracias por apoyar mi comentario. Me siento honrada de recibir su respaldo.
Ya.... yang anda katakan memang benar teman, kalau agama kita hanya kepada Allah SWT kita bersujud mengakui dosa kita walaupun tidak kita akui Allah maha mengetahui.
Yang sangat disayangkan kalau pendeta seorang polisi maka yang datang membuat pengakuan dosa ,maka habislah mereka di masukkan penjara.
Berarti seorang pendeta harus menanggung beban yang sangat berat mendengarkan pengakuan dosa setiap ummat yang datang. Kalau yang datang dalam satu hari 10 orang saja dengan pengakuan yang beraneka ragam, bisa-bisa harus minum obat penghilang ingatan nampaknya, saya tidak akan kuat pak jika banyak masalah seperti itu 🤦
I don't believe any of this priest's silence. Silence only counts if it harms no one. Those indulgences like they sold in the Middle Ages were also pure scams. Those who had money were forgiven sins with no problem. So the rich got away with everything while the poor were blamed and exploited.
In my family, no one is Catholic. Only best friend was apparently baptised once or at least her husband who is Indonesian. Both never go to church and will never confess. I was already dumbfounded that they suddenly wanted to get married in church after almost 30 years together. And also the priest said the last time he saw them was when they had children baptised. I didn't even know that. Hahaha. I don't believe they went back to church either.
With us, by the way, most Catholics live in the south of the Netherlands bordering Belgim. All the burgundian lifestyle. long live the fun, Carnival, nudity, drunkenness (many breweries started with the monks all Catholics preaching simplicity) and you name it. Not really my way of life.
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Not everyone can do it, you are amazing. Maintaining trust is much more difficult than conveying trust.
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Terimakasih 🙏, betul itu ....dan jarang orang mau menjaga kepercayaan bahkan sering berkhianat... semoga saja kita jauh dari sifat tersebut, kiban lawet Nyoe lancar? Ikot Ju Kontes bak tulisan bebas, nyak rame😊
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Keeping a secret is not a problem. What can be a problem it the type of secret told and how to deal with your conscious.
You probably saw a Catholic confessing his sins. That used to be compulsory every Friday and Saturday even if you had not sinned. Then they would sit and talk to you about everything and you would confess and not get whipped or caned. Catholics assume that everyone is a sinner and is born a sinner. You are therefore not allowed to enter church unbaptised. The baptismal font is therefore at the back unlike the other faiths, I have always found it strange that you can misbehave and just buy off your sins with an amount of money or by saying the same prayer 6 times. I don't believe it works like that.
I can imagine, though, that it can be a relief to express something heavy on your heart. I myself would never confide in a doctor or the church for that. They are not ones I see as sincere and abiding by the duty of silence.
Saya tidak tahu kalau mereka beragamnya katolik, karena waktu itu saya masih belum terlalu paham namun saya memperhatikan apa yang mereka lakukan, dan saya meyakini bahwa itu bulan agamanya kami jadi itu saja.
Terimakasih atas penjelasannya, sampai sekarang saya masih kurang paham apa itu baptis dan apa fungsinya dan kenapa kalau belum di baptis orang tidak boleh masuk gereja?
Karena kalau kemesjid tidak ada larangan seperti itu kecuali wanita yang sedang haid , bahkan orang beragama lain saja di perbolehkan masuk mesjid