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RE: Prompt of the day “Quota” - I Demand Too Much Sometimes
You said, "no matter what I do it’s not good enough." But you know what? This might be artificial. I mean, this feeling really might come from just your feeling of lack of others being appreciative of you and your hard work. All I know is, as a wife, I try really hard to thank my husband every day for what he does for the family, for example, "thank you for fixing the door, hun". Or "I appreciate you ordering that online". and if I get busy and forget to say something, he gets so hard on himself and feels unappreciated. But sometimes it's hard for us women to say it every day every time. Women actually think men have it all under control. So we just trust. You ARE good enough. Don't be too hard on yourself.
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Yea you may be right though I tend to reject appreciation, as in I’m just doing what I’m supposed too....
The demand is more a consistent motivation which when not achieved I find myself distraught even though it’s only myself upholding that standard... not sure any amount of appreciation externally will correct this internal struggle 😉
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