I know. I am married to a veteran and if motherhood had not been my career choice, armed forces was at the top of my plan b list. I have since learmed that military training is abusive and harmful, with long lasting negative effects. Also I am convinced that military deployment is used as a tool to keep intelligent, able bodied men far away from their homes and families to prevent them from dealing with our domestic enemies which are a much more immediate threat to said families than people overseas.