I have no solution but feel your pain and frustration. I feel like just keep making the same things over and over again. I try to do "healthy" but am not nearly as dedicated as you! Keep at it... its hard right now, will pay off because by the time they drive, and get jobs and have activities, your evening meal will likely just be you and your husband again! Sounds like you just need a couple new dishes to try that will mix things up a bit! Good luck :}