I thank you so much! I really appreciate people who are so far but trying to help me with advice or warm words, and actuslly who sometimes read what I write here:)
You're right, the best way is being far from the system, not living in the city, and I have come to it too, I wanna live far from them all. But it is too little just to want it, now we need to find the place for living, we dream of a new house just for our family, no multistorey houses ever again, and it must be outside the city, I hope the universe will help us:)